30 Apr How to Have an Affair (Stuck and Lovin’ It!) Part 5

Over the last several weeks, we have been learning about 12 Actions to Ascertain an Affair. This week, let’s continue…

6. Disconnect with your spouse regularly      (I Cor. 7:1-5).

It is so important to connect with your spouse physically, mentally, spiritually and socially…regularly!  The Bible tells the husband and wife, “Defraud not one the other, except it be with consent for a time, that you may give yourself to prayer and fasting and come together again that Satan tempt you not for your incontinency” (I Cor. 7:5). The context here is the physical love life of a husband and wife.  God clearly created sex between a husband and wife not just for procreation, but for enjoyment!  Remember this, if you regularly eat filet mignon, you will have no desire for Big Macs!

7. Make sure you regularly walk by the person you are attracted to (Rom. 13:14).

Here the Word of God tells us, “…make no provision for the flesh”.  If you want to have an affair, regularly find a reason to jog by his house or walk by her work station, or frequent her restaurant!  Remember this, you can’t win from a losing position.

8. Dress and work out with them in mind.

It’s great to dress nicely and I hope you will be a good steward of your body.  However, if you are picking out that tie with her in mind or that dress with him in mind, you are in trouble!

Next week, we’ll continue this series and tell you how to be “Stuck and Lovin’ It!”